For any Organization or Team.
The Institute of customer service has said that customer service complaints have hit their highest level on record and are costing British businesses more than £9bn a month in lost staff time.
However, if you ask most leaders to tell you about their conflicts, the likelihood is that they will say that they don’t have any. Rather they will tell you that there are a few tensions, some un-joined-up thinking, frustrations or a few “difficult people”.
Whilst minimizing the conflict can feel a sensible thing to do, ensuring that we are not making a mountain out of a molehill, it is also a big mistake. Rather, the aim of any leader should be to ensure that the members of his team is “comfortable with conflict” and, what is more, benefit from the opportunities that it presents.
One of the biggest challenges we come across is a feeling that conflict is “a bad thing”. There is one main reason why. Namely that where there is a conflict or difference of opinion, an unhelpful blame/shame chain reaction occurs as follows:
So, how do you know that you are experiencing conflict? Well, it’s simple: conflict will be anywhere we identify a lack of unity, a breach of the spoken or unspoken rules and it begins when one or both parties believe that they have not or might not get their way.
Once we accept that and become comfortable with conflict accepting that it happens and can be triggered by very many things, a much more helpful chain reaction occurs:
The upshot is actually that people are better off as a result of the conflict than they had been before. They understand that the conflict may have been the only way for them to reach the learnings and, more often than not, they will have learnt something new because of it.
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